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Jan 14 2010, 2:28 AM
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Cosmix Fairy
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Well Mariah, you'll 12 right? Yeah. I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend either. I have tons of really good guy friends, but no boyfriends.
Quoting my best friend here (Who like, REALLY knows what she's talking about. She's had like, 5 boyfriends since grade 8 ) "A boy friend is much better than a boyfriend."
So perhaps you might try befriending the guys instead. If you get to know them, maybe you won't be as shy around them, plus then you might have a whole slew of guy friends.
Haha, hope that helped. Ish. I don't make much sense.
This post has been edited by winxclubrox23: Jan 14 2010, 2:31 AM
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Jan 14 2010, 2:55 AM
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Tynix Fairy
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Okay Mariah look, at school I bet I am the most unique boy at school, infact probably the most weird, but when I was 11 I learned to like my uniqueness and to find people to hang around that could accept me for who I am if not I avoid them. I think you being weird is part of your uniqueness and you should consider it something to be thankful about. About the loner girl thing, I'm pretty sure you have at least one friend and to let you know I'd rather have ONE true friend than be popular. In Grade 6 I really wanted to be popular but I ended up in the same situation as you. Trying to be popular is wrong, that's why I don't hang out in big crowds. If you have a beauty mark, well there's a reason they call it BEAUTY mark. The gothic look is really good so you shouldn't be sad if your clothes look emo (I'm wearing black and navy right now). I don't get what's wrong with wearing your hair up my friend ALWAYS wears it up too. If you cry too much try to distract yourself from crying and do something that makes you happy. But if you gotta cry, then don't hurt yourself from trying to stop. If you're not popular you don't need to be, and to help the "don't talk" problem, try public speaking cause that's what I did. If you like choir then you should stick to it with happiness, I was in choir for the past two years and I loved it. If your friends all have boyfriends, well that's not you, maybe your the single type, or maybe your not ready for that situation yet. Hope that helped, those types of thoughts helped me. And note, you have lots of people supporting you here already so no need to feel lonely
This post has been edited by Abdu 6b: Jan 14 2010, 2:56 AM
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Jan 14 2010, 8:01 AM
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Cosmix Fairy
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From: South Africa, Durban
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Oh, Doll. I'm also a loner, a freaky girl who has weird mannerisms. I sit alone at break, drawing or reading. Nobody really give two cents about me. They just want to avoid me and are extremly jealous of me, Pff. Then everything changed, a grade 10 student named Kelsey come in to my life and we are the best pals ever. We are both freaks and loners, and we have loads of inside jokes, but very mature for ages. I never really thought we would end up as friends, but soon we started giving eachother nicknames and we became best friends. We have a lot in common and she's like my lost older sister. Guess what, I'm happy more than ever. Look here girl, my advice is to follow your heart. Not the flashy rainbow in the sky, 'cause the closer you get to it, the further it'll jump away. Destiney ends you up in the weirdest places. So trust your heart. Be who YOU are. NOBODY else. Because YOU are the only YOU in this world. And YOU rock.
Try spend a month trying to find who you are and see if you like it. Boys love chicks who are confident with themselves and act like who they really are. Don't rush love, it'll take it's time to come to you. Remember, if you are always being confident in yourself, people will eventually relise and respect you for it! ~
That's all I got to say ^^ Hope it helps.
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Jan 14 2010, 8:12 PM
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A True Fairy
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QUOTE (P-girl @ Jan 14 2010, 11:29 AM) Well.... boyfriends aren't the Be-all and end all of someone's life. I know young girls are pressured into it by the media, their peers and friends and such.... but you shouldn't feel bad if you don't have one. I'm twenty-two, never had a boyfriend, and totally cool with that. I don't need a boyfriend to make me feel complete. Pretty much same here. I also do feel the fact when those around me have relationships, but as i have decided, and a bit rightfully so, just aint ready to be fully commited in a relationship.
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