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P-girl
post May 5 2007, 9:20 AM
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This is a thing that has been bothering my entire life. It's not that big of a deal most of the time, but sometimes, when I hear my friends talk about their crushes, I feel sad:
I never fell in love..... ever.
I don't know why or how, but I never felt 'special' around a guy (Or girl, for that matter). No butterflies, no choking on my words, not even a simple tinge.
Is this normal? I'm 20, going on 21, and I never felt love, heck, I don't even know how it's supposed to feel. And it makes me feel sad, and an outcast. A 'good' friend (Not anymore, but that's private) once told me, serious and in my face, that I didn't have emotions. And altough I know that isn't true, I can't help but shake the feeling that I can't feel love for someone other then family, and that's.... upsetting, to say the least.
Is it normal to be like this? And if it's not, how do I cope with it? Please help....
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post May 5 2007, 10:53 AM
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dont worry it's normal^_^ trust me you will feel love for someone someday just dont look for it, it will probably hit you when you least expect it.


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wanna know why we search so hard for love its beacause it's the closest thing we have to magic.
I'm just the shell of a person, a puppet with broken strings
always putting on a smile to fool the world
It looks like I'm losing this fight
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Everything I do is another mistake to you
you fade away like tears in the wind
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She is fallin apart right in front of your eyes...but you don't realize it. Wanna know why, cause you are to busy fighting with your husband
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post May 5 2007, 6:28 PM
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Here's a poem I wrote that might help you

Love
It's always a funny thing
So mysterious
Yet so appealing
How do you find this mystical feeling
Well as it all goes
You don't find love
It always finds you


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post May 10 2007, 4:07 AM
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its perfectly normal, you just haven't met the right person yet, when you do you'll know. You might not be one of those people that "crush" right away. You could be friends with someone and than just realize one day that maybe your friendship is a lil more than you realized.
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Florays
post May 10 2007, 5:00 PM
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I fell in love once. But that's over for a long time. And the bad feeling is. I forgot how it feels.
I want to be in love again. Just made you know you're not the only one. icon_wink.gif


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post May 10 2007, 5:14 PM
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Thanks guys, your reactions really helped, I feel a lot better and less estranged now. Thanks.
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Florays
post May 10 2007, 5:18 PM
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No problem, and you're almost an Charmix Fairy! ( I think, you almost got 400 posts! )


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post May 10 2007, 7:47 PM
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girl...
believe me your not an outcast...
hell am 18 and still...ya know.... and am in a scool where evryone did it allready tongue.gif
(talk about being an outcast!!!! tongue.gif)

love comes at the most stupid time at the most stupid place and with someone you would never expect...and by the way it's not like your 50 or anything you still have many many many years to expirience it...so enjoy your single self and go nuts once in a while tongue.gif

i hope i helped a bit
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Another Morning
post May 13 2007, 6:33 PM
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I know it's kinda late, but I've never had a crush or anything, either, and I'm 16. It's fine if you've never been in love with somebody. You just haven't met the right person.


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mightymarty2
post May 19 2007, 10:53 AM
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Love is a mistery, the thing is a feel it for a girl in school, then I don't seriously messed up in the head I am. It may have something to do with her smoking as I don't but had no feelings when she quit then came back near end then started again and feeling went after another month. Maybe love in my head has a random on off switch.


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Florays
post May 20 2007, 3:33 PM
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You guys.. I think, I'm in love.. I'm so ashamed! I forgot how love felt. But now, I guess I never lost the feeling of it.. It feels nervous, your heart is skipping beats all the time you see him. I'm getting short stomach ache's when I think of him. And sometimes, it hurts so much that I collapsed. It's not a normal boy.. It's someone from my favourite band.. I need help! wub.gif


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post May 20 2007, 4:29 PM
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@ P-Girl:
dont worry about it! i felt one time love for a guy... i think i felt it..
i had a crush on other boys, but i never loved them really
when the time had come, you will feel love, im sure!!

@ florays: gustav isnt that good^^ but its sweet icon_biggrin.gif


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Florays
post May 23 2007, 4:48 PM
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I'm defently in love, that's for sure. The boys at my school aren't pretty, even tough.. They're ugly..


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post May 24 2007, 11:33 AM
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i`m wis you one that one Florays!!!!!!the boys at my school are..... UGLY!

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mightymarty2
post May 26 2007, 1:53 PM
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Love it is something I am not sure I feel truley
How do you tell if a crush is a mad crush or you our in love
As their is this really nice girl on a trip for physics and maths revision any way I was forced to dance with Emma I don't know wouldn't let me sit down any way she danced with me as well don't know if I am in love with her or how to get in contact with her only know her first name Courtney (spelling may not be correct).
Help!

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post May 26 2007, 2:50 PM
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maybe you can ask some other members of this trip about her..


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post May 29 2007, 1:52 AM
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I fell in love for the first time recently.
I'm 80% sure its love, He just doesn't know it. icon_razz.gif


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post May 30 2007, 8:16 PM
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Yes but scared of martin's got a girl friend and may reject me also not sure I am ready for a relationship.


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post May 30 2007, 8:21 PM
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im sometimes also not sure if im really ready for a realtion ship ( i mean i had a few ones) but sometimes its just weird.. you know, i like this guy so much. and from the beginning, he gives me more attention and shows me, he wants to be my boyfriend im sooo pissed of him... :S:S:S

but only sometimes (as i said, i had a few relationships i was very very happy with )


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mightymarty2
post May 30 2007, 8:39 PM
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Well I hope you find one eventually. Fear of being bullied holds me back as got cuddly toys in my room and everything else as was bullied for over 6 years


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