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Magix Club's Forum _ Advice _ a love triangle
Posted by: rano0oma Feb 18 2010, 11:37 PM
so, i have this friend who likes me but i don't like him, he's a great guy and all but i just don't think about him that way, anyway he has a friend and i like him, a lot. but we can't really get together cause of the other guy that likes me, but if we do. the other guy would be hurt and probably fight with the guy i like and that way their whole friendship would be completely ruined because of me and i don't want that to happen cause i would feel incredibly guilty about it...
please, please, please give me some advice cause i really don't know what to do :S
Posted by: wkw427 Feb 19 2010, 12:56 AM
Tell the one who likes you that you don't like him. But don't tell him that you like his friend, let him find that out for himself.
Posted by: Princess-Mariah Feb 19 2010, 1:58 AM
No DONT,
I had a crush on jason, and he didnt like me, but cierra only liked him because i always talked about him, but jason liked cierra they went out and me and cierra caused the biggest fight in the school EVER so trust me dont
If i were you try to get the other guy to like an other girl dont tell him you dont like him it will make him wanna die maybe.
Because when jason and cierra dated I tried bring a knife to my veins but my sister caught me, I tried drowning but i couldnt, I tried jumping in front of a car it stopped before it could trust me and it will cause him to hate you
Posted by: wkw427 Feb 19 2010, 1:01 PM
Hi, from what TV show did you come from?
Sorry, but I really can't believe anything about that -.-
Posted by: Princess-Mariah Feb 19 2010, 9:46 PM
It is true, Jason meant alot to me now he's just like anyother guy a selfish jerk
Posted by: wkw427 Feb 19 2010, 10:15 PM
Most guys that don't feel attracted to girls ARE jerks. At least where I live.
Anyway, if a guy likes you and you tell him you don't like him, well, if he goes into a fit of rage, it shows he is immature. Would you of liked to date an immature guy who cries when he doesn't get the girl he wants?
Posted by: terriordx32 Feb 19 2010, 10:18 PM
Ran,
I think you should just tell the boy who likes you in a pleasant way that you dont have feelings for him, but you do for his friend. Also, you should have his friend talk to him as well... it could help.
Posted by: Princess-Mariah Feb 19 2010, 10:21 PM
Thanks that makes me feel alot better 
Posted by: Ranma Feb 19 2010, 11:25 PM
Just turn him down politely. From a guy's opinion, it's much nicer to tell them the truth than lead them on. It's happened to me before, and I felt horrible when the whole ordeal was over. I never once got angry at the girl, she just didn't want to hurt my feelings. However, it would have been a lot better if she just told me she wasn't interested in me straight from the beginning.
Posted by: fullmoon Feb 19 2010, 11:44 PM
I really think it matters what kind of person the guy that you don't like is and the depth of his....love. Some people are more emotional than others and fall hard. Others seem to recover and stand back up easier than others. However, it is up to the guy that you like if he prefers friendship or love more. Honestly speaking, I think that guy 2 (the guy who you like) should tell guy 1 (the guy you don't like) that he likes you and it is mutual because it is easier to hear it from a friend in my opinion.
Posted by: Ranma Feb 20 2010, 12:09 AM
Trust me. If she leads the guy to believe he has a chance he'll fall a LOT harder than if she tells him straight out from the beginning.
Posted by: rano0oma Feb 20 2010, 1:03 PM
guy 1 likes me for 2 years now!! and i told him in the nicest way i could that i don't think about him that way when i first found out and i have told him many times after that when he told my friends to talk to me about it, but he just tells me to wait and maybe my feelings will change. but it doesn't and i could just tell guy 2 to talk to him about it but guy 1 is sorta emotional and even if the guy i like care about me more, i would feel an unbelievable amount of guilt cause they have been friends for as long as i can remember.