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May 5 2008, 9:47 PM
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Cosmix Fairy
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I can't really help you that much but I'd go with what Abby said. It's pretty hard to lose weight where you want to and gain weight where you want to... it usually ends up that if you lose a lot weight in one area (like the stomach), you'll also end up losing it where you don't want it lost. Also, like Abby said, don't eat 1 hour before bed, (not even cereal). What you eat stays with you all night and since your body is relaxed, it takes it a lot longer to digest it, so a lot of it turns to fat. Also, my tip is to not drink soft drinks. I know that that is a downfall and ruins people's diets. Family members of mine diet and drink a ton of pop and let's just say that their dieting turned out to be a failure. Pop= tons of sugars and calories= lots of fat. (Once in awhile is ok, like for special occasions, but one pop per day is not at all alright).
Like a lot of people said already: you're not done growing yet. You gain weight as you get older. What will help you the most is a healthy diet and exercise. (If sit-ups aren't your thing; trust me, I hate them too; then go for walks, ride your bike, or play sports that you like. I found that walking is a great form of exercise.)
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When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door, that we do not see the one which has opened for us. -Helen Keller
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May 6 2008, 4:53 PM
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Cosmix Fairy
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From: Escaping the Matrix
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QUOTE (Unica-Musa @ May 6 2008, 10:59 AM) why do you don't like yourself ? If someone said you that you're too fat then just don't listen him or her.... Totally agree ^^. Just get fit and healthy because it's good for you, and hopefully you're not feeling pressured or self-conscious. I just ignored the people around me as best as I could, which was still pretty hard. I lost weight because I knew I should and that I was unhealthy.
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May 7 2008, 3:42 PM
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Sirenix Fairy
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From: Croatia
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QUOTE No, I don't think I look great enough. I can't believe I had a tummy suddenly and a big fat hips and legs. Which I really hate it, I never eat fast food much or anything. I just drink a lot of water and healthy food. And also, I did always walk to school instead of taking bus. But I don;t have the idea why I look fat. And guess what, now I'm growing gray hair. I totally love my hair color and I do not want to ruin it by dying it! Any ideas hiding the gray hair? My classmated are reaaally bigger then you..BUT really!
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May 9 2008, 11:59 AM
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Cosmix Fairy
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well, I got to tell. I'm not close with my family, and even I tell them they won't even understand. The reasons why I've becoming like this is mainly because of family stress if I'm not wrong. And also, just recently a friend just sneaked my personal problems to my aunt, and I hate it! I do not want any of my family to know my personal life and problems, but my friend betrayed me! and I talked to her in a phone convo, she said that it is to help me, and I actually cried. it's not only my family problems, it is also because my friend betrayed me! She told what she shouldn't tell, and so what if i always look emo everyday of my life? I'm always like that, so what? It's my problem right? I don't mind what I meant to be, because it's destiny. I got no choice! And why she become so busybody for? I'm depressed, and I don't know what to do. I've cried at then night, and I thought through night. I decided not to meet her anymore, or contact her or any of her friends. We're considered through. And I cried again in school today, never talk to any of my classmates. Until I got a chance to meet another friend of mine. She cheered me up (One of my BFF, which is trust able) , and I'm now quite in a good mood now. Although I'm now smiling, typing my keyboard, but deep in my heart I still felt a bit unhappy.
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May 9 2008, 1:55 PM
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Cosmix Fairy
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I already did that once, but it's useless. And I do keeping my dream of being an animator, working in rainbow and also with Straffi. *Imaging it now* But, it's just something that I cannot resist. I'm not fear of anything, but except of eye contact with people and spiders. But my biggest fear is my family. i do not want to say much, but all I can say is I think I'm the stupidest among the family (My relatives can get degree, U graduated students and also an A students. But me? I'm a student whom dropped my grades in Pri school, sucks at maths and science, low-ranked student, and now studying a course that Singapore will not acknowledge!) I wanted to prove that I can do it, but now I'm lacked of confidence to believe in it.....
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May 9 2008, 3:06 PM
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Sirenix Fairy
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From: Croatia
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You need to love yourself just like you are, then you will feel happier...and start searching for a true friend who is gonna keep your secrets and encourage you
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