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Jul 28 2008, 2:13 AM
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Cosmix Fairy
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Joined: July 23 2007
From: Nashville, TN, USA
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well i found a lost friend. she was one of my dearest friend, we knew each other since 2nd grade. she was like a big sister to me, so overprotective of me, treated me like a baby. but in the 6th grade, she started having problem with her mother and family. terrible problems. so she had to get away, and i heard she moved with her father, but then there were more problems. so she left, and i didn't know where, i asked her brother but he wouldn't tell me nothing. for 4 years i wonder where was she, i was scared for her, until the friday before last friday. i saw her and i was so shocked to see her. she had tattoos on her back and a piercing below her bottom lip, and she was with a guy, her boyfriend i'm sure, and his family. and she was holding a little baby boy. i was so shocked. i couldn't believe she did this to herself. i wanted to say hey and hug her, telling her i miss her so much, but i was so shocked after i saw her, i wanted to cry. i think she waved hello to me but i'm not sure, i didn't wave back. its been bothering me ever since. i don't know what to do. it really hurt me to see her like that. what she did with her body.and the baby boy. i'm hoping that isn't her.. son.. i don't know what to do. please help.
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Aug 2 2008, 2:00 AM
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Mythix Fairy
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From: somewhere over the rainbow
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Oh, metb, I'm sorry to hear that. Losing friends is really hard to handle, I know too. It's really strange to think of your lost friend as the way she is now, and that's totally understandable, it's a shock. It's harder still because you don't know what's happened to her, so it seems like one day she was your friend and the next some unfamiliar person. But that also means that you can't know the reasons why she's like this. Maybe she's still the same friend you had on the inside, just life has worn her out, so to speak, on the outside. Everyone's right, just because someone's appearance/life changes doesn't mean their care for another has. Everyone else is right about contacting her too. If you can, explain how much you've missed her and how much she meant to you, and that you still want to be her friend, if that's true. Then, ask her what's happened and to explain everything, so you can get a sense of what her life has been like since she left. You may have to be the one comforting and protect her, who knows what could happen. If you can't right away, maybe it's for the better: giving you time to recover the shock and be more open-minded. I know you are, my friend, but stay open-minded. That's what'll get you through this. Hope things work out for the best, and hope I helped ^^ ♥
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♥ ~ don't try to understand me, just love me ~ save me from losing it all guide me through the darkest catch me before I fall but let me create myself
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Jan 13 2009, 9:21 PM
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Cosmix Fairy
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Joined: July 23 2007
From: Nashville, TN, USA
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i found her! it was at my sister first concert. i saw her down the hallway and she turned around and called my name. i was shocked, but i ran to her (i was scared i was going to lose her through the crowd, cause that place was pack) we hug, cried, and she told me what has happen. i was sad to hear what happen. her parents didn't want to do anything with her, pretty much kicked her out of her house. and she is living with her boyfriend's family, i think. but i was so happy to see her, but then i couldn't see her cause i had to seat down with my family and watch my sister perform (she got a solo part) after that i didn't see her. but i'm glad i finally saw her and found out what has happen. thanks to everyone for you advice. thank you very much. ^_^
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