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Magix Club's Forum _ Miscellaneous _ I'm really tired of hearing this

Posted by: musa225 Oct 18 2013, 2:35 AM

So I'm 5 feet 2 inches tall and around 104 lbs.....I get it I'm small.......I know I'm 'skinny'..I hate that word sooo much...yet people at work feel the need to tell me this just about everyday. There like "Oh look at her she's just this tinny thing, how do you stay so skinny?" or "I wish I could fit in that small space like you." That kind of stuff.......and it annoys me soooo much......like you have NO idea.....I just don't see the point of pointing out that I'm 'skinny' still hate that word its like pointing out that I have brown eyes. I just don't see the point, like what do you what me to do about being tinny.....eat a lot of food???!!!! I'm just sooo tired of hearing it....its never even been a complement....I'm starting to find it degrading...... I just REALLY don't know what to do....

Posted by: mightymarty2 Oct 18 2013, 6:45 PM

I am not sure that you can change too much as you seem to be naturally small. So change is going to be hard, I think its best to try and not let them affect you. As it sounds to me your height is always going to make you look slimer.

Posted by: dittadulla Oct 20 2013, 9:00 PM

Tell them it makes you uncomfortable and kindly ask them to stop saying stuff like that. Hopefully they will get the message, they just may not realize that those comments are very unwanted until you tell them.

Posted by: musa225 Oct 23 2013, 1:36 PM

Thx, I think I knew what I need to do I just needed to hear it from other people so I know i'm think along the right lines. icon_biggrin.gif