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From: Pittsburgh, PA
I recently asked a girl out over the phone and made a date with her, now, however, all her friends are getting involved by saying that she's not ready for a relationship and that I'm not ready for her. Its stupid high school drama, I know, but I REALLY like her and I'm almost at the point of asking her out, I need advice, please!
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From: England
(wrong section, this should be in advice)
I think its the girl's decision and not her friends if she is or is not ready. Whatever she chooses you will have to respect and wait untill the time is right.
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From: India
I agree with Marty, her friends do not need to get involved. See if you can find a way to talk to this girl about the whole situation in private; just the two of you, and if you both feel that you're ready for a relationship, nothing should stop you from going out.
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From: Escaping the Matrix
Even if she's not ready for a serious dating experience you could still go out, like friends. This way you'll get to know each other even better and she can find out whether she's interested in dating or not. You can't miss either way since you'll probably either make a new friend or have the future possibility of dating if she's open to it. She'll also see how good of a person you are by respecting her wishes to hold off asking until she knows when or if she'll be ready for dating. Good luck =).
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Feb 3 2009, 11:38 PM
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