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Purityangel
post Jun 8 2009, 3:10 PM
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First of all, I've known him for almost a year (it'll be at the end of summer), but that's just so everyone can know long it's been.
The problem is, about a half a month ago he started to ignore me and spend way more time with his girlfriend. I mean, I've tried to talk with him but he always made it very short and I really dislike his actions as of right now. It makes me so unimportant, replaced, rejected, and unloved. I just can't take this any longer. What should I do?


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post Jun 8 2009, 3:15 PM
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Perhaps he thought you two were dating?


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post Jun 8 2009, 3:20 PM
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Maybe he does not realise try asking him if you can spend more time together or ask him if there is a reason why he is ignoring you


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post Jun 8 2009, 3:21 PM
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That's common between friendships. I know how you feel, I feel rejected all the time.

Well, maybe you should try talk to him when his girlfriend is not around, then she doesn't attract his attention. Maybe when he is more focused ect. My ideas are that you could become friends with his girlfriend, so that you can all be friends and have time for everyone perhaps. You should also try plan outings to a amusement park when there is nothing else planned and form a social gathering.

I hope this will help^^


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post Jun 8 2009, 3:26 PM
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I agree with Mish. Be honest with him, and calmly talk it over. That's often a good way to solve a problem with a friend. Hope we helped. =)


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post Jun 8 2009, 3:47 PM
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Thanks everyone, I just hope it all works out for me and him.


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post Jun 8 2009, 3:48 PM
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Good luck, I hope so too. =)


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post Jun 8 2009, 4:00 PM
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Good Luck Purity! I hope you can be friends with him again. I had a similiar situation once. Too bad it ended so that i had to stop being friends with a girl i knew for a long time, because she started to spend more time with her boyfriend and ignored me. She didn't realise i was trying to be her friend.


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post Jun 8 2009, 4:08 PM
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I hope it works out, I wish you the best!


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post Jun 8 2009, 4:19 PM
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Good luck Purity!


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post Jun 8 2009, 10:00 PM
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post Jun 8 2009, 10:47 PM
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I have some good news. Me and my friend are starting to talk again. :]


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post Jun 8 2009, 11:52 PM
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If you mean to "Get him back" as friend then yes. I swore to never date that guy again. -.-
But thanks for the advice. =)


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post Jun 9 2009, 4:24 PM
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I am glad that everything went well icon_biggrin.gif

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post Jun 9 2009, 4:59 PM
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that's good news, im happy for you


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