sometimes it just takes time, it stinks but its true I felt the same way about a boy when i was in 7th grade, I crushed on him for a long time.He went out with another girl and stayed together throughout highschool. At the time I thought he was amazing, super cute, athletic,funny, kind. But one day we were in the same classroom and he was being a real jerk. As I watched him I felt my crush go away. I still have a soft spot for him, but i realized he isnt the one for me, he wasnt who I thought and wanted him to be. Try putting things in perspective...make a list about his flaws, it can help you realize that your better off. I like to listen to music, like kelly clarkson or some old spice girls songs...girl power i'm better off songs lol. Sometimes it just takes time, maybe not a day or a week...maybe not even a month, but one day youll realize that you dont feel like you once did. *Stella* is right cry a little, try just letting your feelings out, cry and write it all down. If you need to talk about...talk away!