Yeah, I'd agree with Abby. You don't have to apologize, because from what you say it's not really your fault. It seems you handled it well with leaving the conversation. You should talk to her again soon, so the argument doesn't damage your friendship more. When you do, you should explain how insulted you were when she said those things to you. Also say, like Abby said, how you wanted it to be just the two of you, because she's your friend and... that's what friends do. I don't know, obviously, for sure, but maybe she did this because she wanted to be with the others in the group for reasons such as, again I don't know your friend so I could be completely lying right now, attention, popularity, etc. When you talk with her, don't forget to not blame her for anything, like, don't say 'well you went to the beach without your mother!' or something, because she'll get defensive and y'all'll never solve anything. So calming explain your plight, and maybe she'll listen and explain hers. So after that, you could suggest doing something just the two of you, closer to home if travel/trains are an issue, and maybe after that you can do stuff in a larger group. But be careful also, you might want to discuss the current state of your friendship, because trivial arguments like this can sometimes be larger than you think. Hope this helps, and good luck! ^^ ♥
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