I am Feeling as If I am Nothing I need Help Please, I just...just can't stop crying anymore... Options

[Princess-Mariah]

Heya to start let me explain of what people see of me and what I see of me...
What they see of me:
I am the weird loner girl who has a weird monroe beauty mark on the left side of her face. I wear emo lookin clothes and ussually wear my hair up. I "like every boy that is nice to me" I cry to much. I dont talk and I am not popular and Im a choir querue

What I see of me:
I am caring and shy until I get to know that person. Around boys I get nervous. I am a music lover so I join choir. I think my monroe beauty mark and my emo looking clothes make me unique. I only like a few guys. I want to be popular but it is hard to. I wear my hair up but soon might get a emo hairstyle.

but my problem is, I have all of these friends who have boyfriends and.... I dont have one. I am scared to speak up because whenever I ask a guy out he says no. I am starting to get closer to the popular girls but not at all with the boys what do I do?!

[winxclubrox23]

Well Mariah, you'll 12 right? Yeah. I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend either. I have tons of really good guy friends, but no boyfriends.

Quoting my best friend here (Who like, REALLY knows what she's talking about. She's had like, 5 boyfriends since grade 8 ) "A boy friend is much better than a boyfriend."

So perhaps you might try befriending the guys instead. If you get to know them, maybe you won't be as shy around them, plus then you might have a whole slew of guy friends.

Haha, hope that helped. Ish. I don't make much sense.

This post has been edited by winxclubrox23: Jan 14 2010, 2:31 AM

[Jahnavi]

I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend either. I have tons of really good guy friends, but no boyfriends.

Ditto, same here. So I completely agree with the others, you don't have to worry about the fact that other girls may have boyfriends, especially when you're only twelve. You'll have plenty of time to think about dating when you're older, don't let other people convince you that it's something essential right now.